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I am writing to you in order to make someone understand that it's good to appreciate our partners despite their flaws. I am 32 years of age.  My ex husband and I dated for 6 years. We where best of friends. I waited until he completed college and started work. My family and his family then met. We got married and had a son. (7 years old now). My husband was short tempered at times but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he couldn't control me. Every time we argued, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain. My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him. If he was controlling me I would always dare him that if he wished, he could divorce me. I never wanted divorce. I just had pride and I never wanted to look like a loose woman in his eyes. One day I pushed him so hard that for the first time he beat me and locked me outside. I went to my family, my family took him to the police, every time I looked like I was being abused! But to be honest, I used to...

A Nigerian lady has asserted that true love does not exist for the mere fact that money can easily be used to snatch someone’s partner. She took to Twitter to state that a man would realise that his girlfriend doesn’t really love him. The lady with username @HunchoSamG wrote Make person transfer 500k give your babe first, na that time you go know say true love no exist She’s not your babe na just your turn. Unless you fit double the money send give m lol.” Read some comments below. @mira_dew : Why you shouldn’t date a broke babe in the first place.  @luthershakurr: Some will reject and start acting up you know. All your shortcomings they used to overlook will then become very glaring and too much to cope with. @marshallzugo007: True love exists. Just because you haven’t seen it yet doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. Try and adjust this mentality “everybody has a price but sometimes it not about money”

  Do you feel satisfied with the style of your boyfriend?   Do you want him to wear something different?   You might choose something more formal.   You might prefer something casual.   You can find out how to change it. Your boyfriend is smart, caring, and funny. He loves you and takes good care of you. Everything is almost perfect.   His clothes.   It’s his clothes. This is a delicate situation, so you need to be careful how you handle it.   Men and women are both sensitive to their looks and can easily be offended by being criticized. Keep these two points in mind.   First, don’t speak negatively. For example, I don’t like your …, I’m ashamed of you for wearing …, You look stupid in… This is not a supportive situation. Use positive language and praise him when he wears something you like. Second, patience!   It is impossible to expect someone to instantly change their clothing style.   It takes time to create a style and it ...

 A sad Ghanian man has opened up about how the woman he loves ended things with him in an unexpected way. In a Twitter post, @q_uestions__ revealed that his lady said he is not spiritual enough for him to be considered her partner Many who saw the netizen's post on social media said the reason the young man's girlfriend gave is not enough.  A netizen has recently come out to share the reason behind his recent breakup with his girlfriend. Taking to his timeline, @q_uestions__ narrated that he got depressed because his girlfriend was acting strangely and he could not wrap his head around it. Her reason for breaking up His woman eventually told him she wants to end things with him because as far as she is concerned, he is not spiritual enough. "I had been depressed this past week because my girlfriend was behaving strangely and I just found out why. Apparently, I'm not spiritual enough for her so, she wants to break up with me. She's breaking up with me because of my ...

After watching Olu Jacob's receiving his prestigious award, three things came on my mind : 1) S3x alone does not keep marriage going. Fiendship and companionship keeps marriage going. The body will eventually get old and you won't have the urge for it. The children you train will eventually, leave and build their home.  It will get to a stage, It will just be you and your partner. What will make it fun is the friendship. You gist together, play together, pray together and many more together ❤  2) Marry a good woman, a good woman is everything. In the video, olu Jacob struggled to stand up, he wasn't comfortable but the hug and kisses from his wife, gave him courage and brightened his mood. 3) Treat your wife and children well because at old age, they will pay you back depending on your relationship with them You receive what you give. Some men tend to spend time with Friends at the bar,workplace and viewing center more than their family . When you get old, most of those fri...