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If the relationships of people around you are not working and you think yours won’t, you may be mistaken. You can make your relationship work. You are different and can do things differently. How can you make your relationship work? Find out in this article. A break-up does not have to be your first option. What are the pointers of a relationship that is working? You give allowance for the faults of your partner You validate their emotions and opinions You are accountable to each other You communicate healthily Because relationships are not working around you doesn’t mean yours will not work. A relationship is not child’s play. It is serious business and cannot solely thrive on the butterflies in your belly. However, there are tips you can bear in mind to make your relationship work. 1 . Intentional knowing. You intentionally get to know your partner by asking them questions and getting them to talk about themselves. Ask questions about their family; what they think about sex; core va...

1. If a person suddenly becomes ugly and his face fades, he is a person who is stuck in more problems than himself. 2. If you bite your nails, you are always thinking about what will happen to your future. 3. If someone sleeps too much, he is very sad. That means there is a great sadness in his heart. 4. If a person eats too much, he is under a lot of stress. 5. If a person gets angry for even a small thing, he needs someone's care, attention and love. 6. If a person laughs too much, he is a person who is suffering a lot. Someone who is looking for a reason to smile. 7. If someone does a thousand things before breaking a relationship and dedicates himself to save it, then he is a person who has suffered immensely due to the breakup of a relationship in his life. So listen to those around you. If they have a problem, set aside a little time for them. You will be able to be a force in someone else's life for a moment. Always be a light to someone like this.

Let’s face it: Relationships can be tough sometimes — like finding time to spend together, parenting or even arguing over the remote. A healthy relationship also means a healthier you, including a lower risk of heart disease and even lower mortality, So how do you keep that relationship going? Here are a few tips to maintain and strengthen it. 1. Communication is critical. Communication is the foundation for all relationships, and without it, you can have problems. It’s the No. 1 reason, in fact, that U.S. couples get divorced, research suggests. “When two people are communicating, roughly half of the message that is being passed and received is nonverbal,” Hardin says. “So it’s really critical to take a step back and think about your partner’s perspective when you’re communicating, especially when navigating text messages and emails.” Hardin suggests embracing a communication style called a bid for affection — where one partner reaches out to the other partner for connection and valid...

My salary came Yesterday and immediately I received alert, I rushed to my husband and asked him how much he needs me to contribute after informing him that my salary has been paid.  Oga thought I was joking and mentioned a figure thinking I was going to contest because it was almost all my salary,  I just carried my phone and transferred it to him.  It was doing him like film, I then went ahead to pay the salary of our children's lesson teacher so that he would stop thinking about it.  That's when I realized that he was doing so much without complaining He sees it like his duty and even when the financial burden is too much, he struggles to pay without asking me.  He was so surprised and happy, I know that my money is just a fraction of what he brings but he felt like I gave him millions.  I then told him that I am putting in the effort to make more money so that I can still reduce his stress. He didn't marry a responsibility, he married an help...

On my way to work this morning, I saw a pregnant woman standing by the road side, from the look on her face, she was in severe pain, ( labour pain ) . She must have spent some time at the junction waiting for taxi, but it seem no taxi was willing to carry her in such condition. while she was in pain, some other women were comforting her, the gathering of people caught my attention. I drove past them, on a second thought, I reversed and offer to give her a lift to the hospital. Why driving her to the hospital, she was restless, shouting and uncomfortable. Honestly, I was dead scared. what will I tell people if anything goes wrong. Her shouting became intense, before you could say madam, take it easy, She has given birth to a boy RIGHT IN MY CAR and she kept saying it's remaining another one. At this point, I don't know if I should park or proceed to the hospital. But I was Dead. 😨😭 I had to muscle up all my safety training and first aid training to continue the jou...

Put a present under the tree, Santa... a baby! Other families come around for the festival of lights while other families complete their Christmas lists with the latest technology. However, a family expecting a new baby this month might just be trying to savor their last few quiet nights! Parents expecting in December are dealing with a lot of changes during a hectic time of year, so let's focus on the good stuff! Here are seven interesting facts regarding December infants. Fun Facts About December Babies 1. A Rare Red Bow It's quite unlikely that you'll give birth on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day. Parents are more inclined to CONCEIVE their children during this time of year because of the rush and bustle and overall feeling of closeness. Those are two of the most uncommon birthdays! So, even if your child reaches an age where they feel overshadowed by the festivities of December, you can tell them that they are unique. They were your present, wrapped in a beautiful red ri...