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My mother always taught me that if you want to love your wife more and more; see more in her, see beyond than a person who should just give you children, wash for you, cook for you, Sweep the house, prepare food for you, see more than just a person to have sex with! See a friend in her, see a mother in her, see a helper in her, see an adviser in her- see more because what you see in others determines how much you will love them... "For the Woman came from a Man's rib, not from his feet to be walked on, not from his head to be superior, but from the side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved." So if you are married and you are committing adultery and all that, you are still a boy and you need to repent! It's not about how much money you are have because your wife isn't married to your money,  Or your mansion or your bed or your cars or your businesses or whatsoever but she married to you and the bible says treat y...

Sometimes, The Woman Who Is Always There For Everyone Else, Needs Someone There For Her: If you just so happen to be that girl who is always there for other people-  The one who is never absent, the one who persists in friendship, there is no doubt that you have bottled up so many feelings.  If you just so happen to be that girl who is always there for other people- the one who is never absent, the one who persists in friendship, there is no doubt that you have bottled up so many feelings.  You are a multilayered personality whose depths seem to have absolutely no limits. Your heart is a vast expanse of water – sometimes troubled and sometimes calm – but always ready to give life to those who need it.  You open yourself up to so many people, and you never expect anything in return. Often, your genuine kindheartedness becomes too commonplace wherein people will overlook it.  Your sincerity and your pre heart is a rare find in this world, and it tends ...

I Wish I Could Tell You Where to find the perfect person but I can't. I wish I could tell you that even when you do find the perfect person,  The both of you will always get along and never have one disagreement together, but that wouldn't be true. Love is a commitment and not a feeling.  And if both of you can't remain committed to each other when tough days present themselves, then how strong is your love for each other?  I've seen so many people prematurely give up on relationships and throw everything away because the mood changed. I've seen so many people push the person away who loved them because they didn't feel like doing the work on the hard days.  If you think you can fall in love with someone without having your commitment to each other tested, then you are truly mistaken.  If you truly want to be in a relationship with someone who you can win with in life, then you have to be strong enough to overcome a loss with that person every once i...

Half Of All Marriages & Relationships  Could be saved with proper communication.  When spouses/mates don't communicate you don't give one another a chance.  To learn whats going on, this starts a chain reaction and vicious cycle of your spouse then feeling neglected because one or more needs now go unmet. Don't expect your spouse or mate to know because they are not a mindreader. Now, once you have given them the information needed its up to them on how they respond. Response : When your mate is saying they need something big or small, Its up to you to take that information and run with it. Even if its something you can't address at the moment let him or her know that you've got their attention.

“When you talk of marriage, there are two things we must take note of: The right time and the right person.  It is the right time that brings about the right person. It is not the right person that brings about the right time. If there is a mistake in these two, there will be trouble in the marriage tomorrow.  The right time and the right person - that is what builds marriage. If you want to marry, wait for God’s time.  When it is the right time, the right person will come. If you don’t wait for the right time, the marriage will not stand the test of time.”

If the relationships of people around you are not working and you think yours won’t, you may be mistaken. You can make your relationship work. You are different and can do things differently. How can you make your relationship work? Find out in this article. A break-up does not have to be your first option. What are the pointers of a relationship that is working? You give allowance for the faults of your partner You validate their emotions and opinions You are accountable to each other You communicate healthily Because relationships are not working around you doesn’t mean yours will not work. A relationship is not child’s play. It is serious business and cannot solely thrive on the butterflies in your belly. However, there are tips you can bear in mind to make your relationship work. 1 . Intentional knowing. You intentionally get to know your partner by asking them questions and getting them to talk about themselves. Ask questions about their family; what they think about sex; core va...

1. If a person suddenly becomes ugly and his face fades, he is a person who is stuck in more problems than himself. 2. If you bite your nails, you are always thinking about what will happen to your future. 3. If someone sleeps too much, he is very sad. That means there is a great sadness in his heart. 4. If a person eats too much, he is under a lot of stress. 5. If a person gets angry for even a small thing, he needs someone's care, attention and love. 6. If a person laughs too much, he is a person who is suffering a lot. Someone who is looking for a reason to smile. 7. If someone does a thousand things before breaking a relationship and dedicates himself to save it, then he is a person who has suffered immensely due to the breakup of a relationship in his life. So listen to those around you. If they have a problem, set aside a little time for them. You will be able to be a force in someone else's life for a moment. Always be a light to someone like this.