Attracting the man you love can be surprisingly tasking, though, quite possible.
There's no doubt about the fact that stunning and thriving women still finds it very difficult to attract their dream man, if you belong to this category, be rest assured that it’s quite possible to make your dream man fall in love with you.
One of the best things a lady can do with her life is spending it with someone she deeply adore, and so, it’s essential to note that the magic doesn't lie on attracting him to yourself, but on making yourself persistently irresistible. You can count on these tips:
1. Be Genuine
The real aim here is to make him fall in love with the real you, in this regard, being genuine is extremely crucial.
Exhibiting a strange personality quite different from your real self will be counterproductive in the sense that he’ll end up falling in love with someone else
[The character you presented] not the actual you. His affection for you will certainly be neutralized the very minute he discovers that you aren't what he thought you were.
2. Don’t be apt in opening up
Acquainting him with everything he wants to know about you at the initial stage isn't a good idea. The ideal way to go about it is to allow him swim in wonder.
Should he request to know more about you, tell him you both will get to know each other with time. It will be fine telling him whatever he wants to know about you much later, but not at the initial stage.
Trying to tell him everything about you at the initial stage evokes desperation, in view of this, you are expected to be as selective as you can when unveiling yourself to him. Tell him mostly what he craves to know about you, reason is, he may either be scared or not interested in your success.
3. Put up a Charming Appearance
A charming appearance is however essential when trying to get your dream man to fall in love with you.
Indeed, your appearance has a great role to play, so, it must be charming enough to lure him to you. Charming appearance here doesn't imply starving to shape up or going for exhaustive shopping, it rather implies looking good.
A well made hair, mild makeup, very responsible outfit and, of course, a mild fragrance, should be your primary consideration. Nonetheless, an infectious smile wouldn't be bad for a start.
4. Be in a Class of Your own
You must not by any reason be mistaken for the usual ladies, be very unique.
Prove beyond reasonable doubts, how rare your specie is by not talking about those things usual ladies likes discussing. Ensure you don’t gossip, rather, be technically selective in order to be viewed in a positive light.
Avoid the mistake of making negative comments owing to any reason, rather, dwell on the positive side only. Men are naturally comfortable with women who mind their business.
5. Get his Attention
Getting and keeping the attention of the man you want without triggering suspicion is quite cheap.
Essentially, you must understand that men fall into two categories, the bold and the shy, in this regard, the category of the guy in question must first be taken into consideration to enable you ascertain the right method to use.
A ~ The shy man:
He’s the type of man who can spend his entire life swimming in deep admiration regarding a woman without the courage to approach her, his greatest fear is being rejected. The best way to win him over is doing the entire job all by yourself.
The first step is to work on him by acquainting yourself with a couple of things about him including the things he’s proficient in. As a quick follow up, get around him so he can notice you.
Stroll around as if you are heading somewhere [don’t look at him even by mistake], maintain a comfortable distance quite enough for him to have a clear view of you so he can check out your beautiful looks.
The next day you see him, briefly give him an innocent look, [make sure your eyes meets his], then move on without looking back. The shy man may not approach you, so, approach him the next time you see him and request his help regarding a thing he’s knowledgeable in.
After helping you out, display an overwhelming gratitude by requesting a drink with him somewhere in town. The venue must be quiet and simple, else he’ll be shy to communicate.
First impression matters, when you successfully get him out there, make it simple for him throughout his stay so he can build confidence. Tease him sparingly and avoid negative comments, your main goal here is to inspire familiarity.
Light up your face constantly with smiles, cease from complaining over anything while maintaining a funny conversation as well as gradually slipping away from leading so he can take it up in order to build confidence.
Avoid disagreements, try pushing the discussion to him by inquiring of the things that fascinates him, then work on the clue you've gotten and build a fantastic familiarity.
Subsequently, keep him as close as you can either by always asking him to accompany you to places or preferably hanging out together, this is to see if he can finally groom the courage to ask you out, but if he doesn't, do it yourself.
B ~ The bold man:
I deem him the wolf of the emotional world, he has the ability to chase the hell out of you once he spots and fall in love with you.
Here’s how to get him - work pass him slowly as if you are heading somewhere, maintain a comfortable distance so he can have a clear view of you, your fragrance at this juncture shouldn't fail to make interim impression.
Extend an innocent glance and ensure your eye meets his, then move on without looking back. The actual reason behind looking into his eyes is to announce your interest.
Avoid being desperate, just hold yourself. The bold man at this juncture may approach you, and when he does, keep an innocent face first, then put up a light smile when he starts talking, this implies being open for a conversation.
Avoid being too tough, but, allow him work hard. Be quite nice in order to prove beyond reasonable doubts that you are actually unusual - quite different from others. Light up the conversation with smiles and stay interesting.
Ask him few cheap questions about himself just to be involved in the conversation. Avoid asking about his kind of job or other important things at this juncture so you don’t scare him away.
Be quite polite and make it a bit simple for him, when the conversation gets too interesting, politely disengage and beg to leave. This will surely keep him hungry for more. Ensure you don’t offer your contact without a passionate plea.
Should he request your contact, extend it politely, but ensure you don’t call him first. When he calls, waste sometime before responding, if it’s a text message, reply after 40 minutes, but don’t ignore him.
The reason here is to technically make it clear to him that you aren't idle. At a point, give in sparingly in order to reward his interest and efforts, but don’t forget to make yourself his ideal woman.
Frankly, it’s quite possible to attract that man you've been craving, but it's imperative to work also on keeping him just by making yourself permanently irresistible.
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