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Let the women take the lead this time. Let down your guard, gentlemen. Let the women take the lead this time.  You don’t have to keep putting up this macho and rugged image that you’re so tired of maintaining. You can let yourself loose every once in a while.  There are loads of women out there who are perfectly capable of steering a relationship on their own. Modern society is filled with women who are strong, independent ,intelligent, ambitious, and resilient.  All around the world, women are making waves in various industries. This is the era of the alpha woman. You don’t have to feel intimidated whenever you date an alpha woman.  In fact, dating a strong and independent woman might be the best relationship decision you will ever end up making in your life. You just have to learn to open your mind and accept the fact that men don’t always have to be the dominant people in relationships anymore.  There are plenty of strong females who will willingl...

On This From The Bottom Of My Heart Today: You will not mis-choose! You will not make marital mistake!!  Every wrong relationship assigned to pull you down is scattered today! I connect you with your true life partner today in the name of Jesus! That woman who has sworn you will not marry receives her judgement today!!!  Every generational curses of marital delay receives the fire of God! Every evil hand pulling your partner from you receives leprosy! Every veil covering you from seeing potential suitors is razed to ashes!  Receive freedom from marine powers! Be free from unknown covenants and vows! You are liberated, in the mighty name of Jesus!

Dear Brother, Be that man who can GROOM his wife, physically, spiritually, emotionally, and otherwise. Not DOOM Her.  ~ Be that man who will wipe away the tears from his wife's face, not the man who puts the tears there. ~ Be there to give her a shoulder to lean on Be there to be her friend, lover, husband, father, partner and priest.  ~ Be that man who pays attention to his wife. Who knows and understands his wife. ~ Be that Man who pays attention to the tiniest details about the woman he married.  ~ Be that Man who knows the colors of his wife's eyes, the shape of her lips, the number of pimples on her face, even to the length of the stretch marks on her thighs.  ~ A Man who knows the minutest detail about his wife, physically, emotionally, and otherwise.  ~ Be that Man who knows his wife's favorite Color, shoe size, pant size, bra size, cloth size ~ Be that Man who baths his Wife. ~ Be that Man who offers to give his wife a full body massage so sh...

Attracting the man you love can be surprisingly tasking, though, quite possible.  There's no doubt about the fact that stunning and thriving women still finds it very difficult to attract their dream man, if you belong to this category, be rest assured that it’s quite possible to make your dream man fall in love with you.  One of the best things a lady can do with her life is spending it with someone she deeply adore, and so, it’s essential to note that the magic doesn't lie on attracting him to yourself, but on making yourself persistently irresistible. You can count on these tips: 1. Be Genuine The real aim here is to make him fall in love with the real you, in this regard, being genuine is extremely crucial.  Exhibiting a strange personality quite different from your real self will be counterproductive in the sense that he’ll end up falling in love with someone else  [The character you presented] not the actual you. His affection for you will certainly...

A Relationship Or Marriage Of Convenience & Deception leads to hurt. Pay attention to those who try to attach themselves to you in this hour. People who can only love you when it benefits them do not love YOU, but they love what you have to OFFER them. In fact, they are leeches!  Watch those who only come around when your resources are flowing and you have the ability to help them advance their agenda. You can no longer allow anyone to drain you spiritually, emotionally, or financially!  You have to know when to say "no!" As you transition into your greater, it is important that you guard your heart and ask God for keener discernment.  You must break this vicious cycle of being a victim of deception and convenience or you will never truly heal. When a man loves a woman she becomes his weakness. When a woman truly honestly loves a man he becomes her strength.  This is called the exchange of power. A strong Marriage requires two selfish-less people who ...

Commitment is a higher form of love. Loving commitment requires daily effort, sacrifice and desire for virtue. Authentic love is given through commitment.  Lovers who truly value each other are committed to expressing their love daily with their actions, their thoughts, and their loving desire. The soul who loves God with such commitment will rise above the world.  Nothing will be able to stop the love in a heart committed to God. How do we commit to God? By giving Him that special place in our heart, and in our life daily.  God has to be first, He has to be the most important relationship in our life, and we must make time to nourish this relationship. The soul who loves God is the soul who is committed to Him.  Do we really love God? How committed are we to Him? Let's love Him through our commitment. Heavenly Father, I long to love you more deeply. Set my heart on fire with deep devotion. I commit to loving you, forever. Amen.

My mother always taught me that if you want to love your wife more and more; see more in her, see beyond than a person who should just give you children, wash for you, cook for you, Sweep the house, prepare food for you, see more than just a person to have sex with! See a friend in her, see a mother in her, see a helper in her, see an adviser in her- see more because what you see in others determines how much you will love them... "For the Woman came from a Man's rib, not from his feet to be walked on, not from his head to be superior, but from the side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved." So if you are married and you are committing adultery and all that, you are still a boy and you need to repent! It's not about how much money you are have because your wife isn't married to your money,  Or your mansion or your bed or your cars or your businesses or whatsoever but she married to you and the bible says treat y...

Sometimes, The Woman Who Is Always There For Everyone Else, Needs Someone There For Her: If you just so happen to be that girl who is always there for other people-  The one who is never absent, the one who persists in friendship, there is no doubt that you have bottled up so many feelings.  If you just so happen to be that girl who is always there for other people- the one who is never absent, the one who persists in friendship, there is no doubt that you have bottled up so many feelings.  You are a multilayered personality whose depths seem to have absolutely no limits. Your heart is a vast expanse of water – sometimes troubled and sometimes calm – but always ready to give life to those who need it.  You open yourself up to so many people, and you never expect anything in return. Often, your genuine kindheartedness becomes too commonplace wherein people will overlook it.  Your sincerity and your pre heart is a rare find in this world, and it tends ...

I Wish I Could Tell You Where to find the perfect person but I can't. I wish I could tell you that even when you do find the perfect person,  The both of you will always get along and never have one disagreement together, but that wouldn't be true. Love is a commitment and not a feeling.  And if both of you can't remain committed to each other when tough days present themselves, then how strong is your love for each other?  I've seen so many people prematurely give up on relationships and throw everything away because the mood changed. I've seen so many people push the person away who loved them because they didn't feel like doing the work on the hard days.  If you think you can fall in love with someone without having your commitment to each other tested, then you are truly mistaken.  If you truly want to be in a relationship with someone who you can win with in life, then you have to be strong enough to overcome a loss with that person every once i...

Half Of All Marriages & Relationships  Could be saved with proper communication.  When spouses/mates don't communicate you don't give one another a chance.  To learn whats going on, this starts a chain reaction and vicious cycle of your spouse then feeling neglected because one or more needs now go unmet. Don't expect your spouse or mate to know because they are not a mindreader. Now, once you have given them the information needed its up to them on how they respond. Response : When your mate is saying they need something big or small, Its up to you to take that information and run with it. Even if its something you can't address at the moment let him or her know that you've got their attention.

“When you talk of marriage, there are two things we must take note of: The right time and the right person.  It is the right time that brings about the right person. It is not the right person that brings about the right time. If there is a mistake in these two, there will be trouble in the marriage tomorrow.  The right time and the right person - that is what builds marriage. If you want to marry, wait for God’s time.  When it is the right time, the right person will come. If you don’t wait for the right time, the marriage will not stand the test of time.”

If the relationships of people around you are not working and you think yours won’t, you may be mistaken. You can make your relationship work. You are different and can do things differently. How can you make your relationship work? Find out in this article. A break-up does not have to be your first option. What are the pointers of a relationship that is working? You give allowance for the faults of your partner You validate their emotions and opinions You are accountable to each other You communicate healthily Because relationships are not working around you doesn’t mean yours will not work. A relationship is not child’s play. It is serious business and cannot solely thrive on the butterflies in your belly. However, there are tips you can bear in mind to make your relationship work. 1 . Intentional knowing. You intentionally get to know your partner by asking them questions and getting them to talk about themselves. Ask questions about their family; what they think about sex; core va...

1. If a person suddenly becomes ugly and his face fades, he is a person who is stuck in more problems than himself. 2. If you bite your nails, you are always thinking about what will happen to your future. 3. If someone sleeps too much, he is very sad. That means there is a great sadness in his heart. 4. If a person eats too much, he is under a lot of stress. 5. If a person gets angry for even a small thing, he needs someone's care, attention and love. 6. If a person laughs too much, he is a person who is suffering a lot. Someone who is looking for a reason to smile. 7. If someone does a thousand things before breaking a relationship and dedicates himself to save it, then he is a person who has suffered immensely due to the breakup of a relationship in his life. So listen to those around you. If they have a problem, set aside a little time for them. You will be able to be a force in someone else's life for a moment. Always be a light to someone like this.

Let’s face it: Relationships can be tough sometimes — like finding time to spend together, parenting or even arguing over the remote. A healthy relationship also means a healthier you, including a lower risk of heart disease and even lower mortality, So how do you keep that relationship going? Here are a few tips to maintain and strengthen it. 1. Communication is critical. Communication is the foundation for all relationships, and without it, you can have problems. It’s the No. 1 reason, in fact, that U.S. couples get divorced, research suggests. “When two people are communicating, roughly half of the message that is being passed and received is nonverbal,” Hardin says. “So it’s really critical to take a step back and think about your partner’s perspective when you’re communicating, especially when navigating text messages and emails.” Hardin suggests embracing a communication style called a bid for affection — where one partner reaches out to the other partner for connection and valid...